Military Family Resources
Basic Training: A Family Guide
Your loved one just shipped out. Here is what happens week by week, how to stay connected, what graduation looks like, and what comes next on the road to their first duty station.
What to Expect, Week by Week
Timeline below reflects the Army schedule (8-10 weeks). The Air Force and Navy run about 8 weeks; the Marine Corps runs 13 weeks. The phases are similar across branches even when the names differ.
Reception / Week 0
In-Processing
Recruits arrive, get haircuts, uniforms, medical screenings, and shots. Sleep is limited. Communication is almost nonexistent. Expect silence for the first few days — this is normal.
Weeks 1-2
Red Phase
Drill sergeants establish discipline and authority. Physical fitness testing begins. Recruits learn to march, follow orders, and adapt to military structure. Phone calls are rare.
Weeks 3-4
White Phase
Rifle qualification, basic combat skills, and land navigation. Recruits begin to find their footing. Short letters or brief calls may start coming through.
Weeks 5-6
Blue Phase
Advanced teamwork, tactical exercises, and longer field training. Recruits are more confident. Communication becomes more regular. Morale typically improves noticeably.
Weeks 7-8
Final Field / Victory Forge
Culminating event — a multi-day field exercise that tests everything learned. After this, recruits know they have made it. The finish line is in sight.
Week 9-10 (varies)
Graduation Week
Final inspections, family day, and graduation ceremony. Recruits may get a short pass. This is the moment families have been waiting for — plan travel well in advance.
Staying Connected
Communication during basic training is limited by design. Understanding the rules ahead of time prevents worry when you do not hear back right away.
Phone Calls
Recruits typically get one short call during in-processing to confirm arrival, then limited calls on Sundays (when earned through good behavior). Calls are short, often 5-15 minutes. Do not expect regular contact in the first two weeks.
Letters and Mail
Letters are the primary way to stay in touch. Write often even before you get a response. The mailing address format is typically:
Pvt LAST NAME, FIRST NAME
Company, Platoon, [Unit Address]
Fort [Name], [State] [ZIP]
Your recruiter will provide the exact address before ship-out.
Email (Army and AF)
Army and Air Force trainees may have limited access to a basic email system (DCO/webmail) during designated times. Messages are short and monitored. The Navy and Marine Corps rely primarily on physical mail. Ask your recruiter about branch-specific digital communication options.
Care Packages: What Is and Is Not Allowed
Most branches restrict care packages heavily, especially in the first two weeks. Check with your recruit's unit before sending anything. General rules across branches:
Generally Allowed
- Handwritten letters and cards
- Stamped envelopes (self-addressed, for their return letters)
- Photos (standard print size)
- Motivational or religious items depending on branch policy
- Books or small paperback Bibles/religious texts (check branch rules)
Not Allowed
- Food of any kind
- Electronics, phones, or chargers
- Civilian clothing
- Cash or gift cards
- Anything requiring refrigeration
- Packages during the first two weeks (most branches)
Family Day and Graduation
Graduation is one of the most memorable moments in a service member's life. Planning ahead makes the experience smoother for everyone.
Family Day (Day Before Graduation)
Most branches hold a Family Day event the day before the graduation ceremony. Families can spend a few hours with their recruit, often touring barracks or participating in unit events. Your recruit may be in uniform and is still under orders. Plan to arrive the evening before Family Day if you are traveling.
What to Bring
- Government-issued ID for base access
- Comfortable shoes (ceremonies involve standing)
- Camera or charged phone
- Cash for on-base shops or vending
- Weather-appropriate clothing (outdoor ceremonies)
- Vehicle pass if required (check base instructions)
After the Ceremony
Depending on the branch and orders, your service member may get a pass of several hours to a few days before they need to report for follow-on training. This is not guaranteed. Confirm with their unit beforehand. Celebrate fully but do not book long travel plans until you know the pass length.
After Basic Training: What Comes Next
Basic training is just the beginning. Every service member goes on to specialty training before arriving at a first duty station.
Army: AIT
Advanced Individual Training (AIT) teaches the MOS (Military Occupational Specialty). Length ranges from a few weeks to over a year depending on the specialty. Some soldiers complete AIT at the same installation as basic (OSUT).
Air Force and Space Force: Tech School
Technical training for the AFSC (Air Force Specialty Code) takes place at various bases. Trainees typically have more freedoms than in BMT. Length varies widely by career field, from 6 weeks to 14 months.
Navy: A-School
A-School teaches the Navy rating (job). Some ratings also require C-School or pipeline training before reporting to a first command. Sailors may live in barracks or, in longer schools, off-base with a housing allowance.
Marine Corps: MCT / MOS School
All Marines go to Marine Combat Training (MCT) first — a 29-day course reinforcing combat skills. Infantry Marines complete Infantry Training Battalion (ITB) instead. After MCT, Marines report to MOS school for their specialty.
Coast Guard: A-School / Follow-On Training
After boot camp, Coast Guard members attend A-School for their rating, or in some cases report directly to their first unit as a non-rated seaman. Assignment orders typically indicate which path applies.
Leave and Orders
Service members receive their follow-on orders before or shortly after graduation. Some are granted leave between basic and specialty training. Orders specify the report date and location. This is usually the first glimpse of where permanent duty station assignments may eventually be.
Branch-by-Branch Differences
Every branch has its own culture, timeline, and training locations. Here is a quick reference for families planning travel or just trying to understand what their recruit is experiencing.
Army
10 weeksFort Jackson SC, Fort Leonard Wood MO, Fort Moore GA
Called Basic Combat Training (BCT). Infantry and armor trainees continue directly to OSUT (One Station Unit Training) at Fort Moore or Fort Jackson.
Air Force
7.5 weeksLackland AFB, San Antonio TX
Called Basic Military Training (BMT). All Air Force and Space Force recruits train here. The base offers a structured family viewing area during graduation.
Navy
8 weeksRecruit Training Command, Great Lakes IL
Called Boot Camp. The only Navy recruit training facility in the country. Families often fly into Chicago or Milwaukee. Winters near Lake Michigan are cold.
Marine Corps
13 weeksMCRD Parris Island SC, MCRD San Diego CA
The longest and most physically demanding basic training. East Coast and female recruits go to Parris Island; West Coast male recruits go to San Diego. The Crucible is the final 54-hour event.
Coast Guard
8 weeksTraining Center Cape May NJ
The only Coast Guard recruit training facility. Cape May is a beach town but training is anything but a vacation. Graduation draws large family crowds in summer.
Space Force
7.5 weeksLackland AFB, San Antonio TX
Space Force recruits complete Air Force BMT alongside Air Force recruits, then branch into Space Force-specific training for their specialty.
A Note on Housing and Real Estate
Recruits in basic training do not need housing help yet, and most will live in barracks or training facilities through specialty school. Housing decisions come into focus when permanent change of station (PCS) orders arrive for a first duty station.
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